Sometimes it is hard to not be perturbed with some people.  I do realize that we all have to watch out for ourselves and strictly speaking we make selfish decisions.  But it seems that sometimes people just don't think about how their decisions might affect others.  Here we sere tonight doing some babysitting.  I say 'we' but you all know that it is mostly 'her'.  ( did give her a bathroom break once.)  Anyway, Sheilas has spent the day getting ready for out FHE tomorrow night and with the grand kids she was pretty much just focused on that.  Then she gets a phone call from her Primary teaching partner who says that she is in St. George.  Ha ha----no being back here to teach tomorrow.  Pressure, pressure and a lot of angst.  She has been flacky like that since we've known her and getting upset doesn't help.  So Sheila is doing a rush job, and I know that she will do fine.  It is just part of the stuff that simply is, and that you have to put up with.  There are other worries and stuff that you'd like to get along without.  But there is always something.  In my own case most of it is me.  I mess myself up enough that I don't worry a lot about what someone else might do.  Sure I get frustrated at 'them' too.  But they can't do anything that really gets to me more then what I can do to myself.  Its a full time job just trying to be nice to myself.  And the real hard part is trying to figure out how I deserve it.