After reading what I wrote last night (this morning!) Sheila said that now I needed to write more specifically about last night.  We did talk about it a lot today and I have thought about it, but mostly I have been just recuperating.  Even though we wanted to take it easy today we both had some stuff that we needed to get done.  I had some office work and Sheila had grocery shopping and a baptism to attend and we decided that in the spirit of recuperation she would not have to fix dinner so we went to Chin Wai's for dinner.  I have been trying to rest throughout the day, but now I have decided that I need to get serious about it and go to bed early.  It feels so inviting because as of yesterday I have had the air conditioner on so I look forward to a nice cool room and comfortable sleep conditions.  I just went outside to clean out the skimmer and even that felt uncomfortable warm to me.  I know that I will be abandoning my wife, but she is pretty much used to that.  I also have had a bit of a cough the past several days so that makes more sleep that much more advisable.  Today has actually been somewhat productive office work-wise even though most of my time was spent not working.  I figure that I am about 1/2 way back to normal, but I am in need of more.  Tomorrow will be another full day, but a memory maker nonetheless.  And sometime soon I will have digested all of what went down last night and be able to write more specifically about it.  One thing still remains and that is the warm memory of that event and the bright hope of what lies ahead for all of us.  This forever family is actually happening and it is really quite wonderful!